'When I'm married and have a child, I'd have done my job as a son. I just feel very dejected,' said the 31-year-old native of the northeastern city of Harbin - who also admits he loves children and hopes to have his own one day. I see my peers getting married one by one and having kids, and I have nothing.
'The most urgent matter for me now is to find a spouse. (Jason Lee/Reuters)Įvery time Benjamin Zhang talks about marriage, he uses the following words in abundance: 'job,' 'duty,' 'my parents,' 'problem,' and 'urgent'. Ning Ning (L) and Nuo Nuo, a lesbian couple in Beijing, sit in their apartment.